Madam Marie: How Do I Tell My Husband That I Know He Is Cheating?
Dear Madam Marie,
Only just yesterday I finally found out for sure that my husband has been cheating on me. I say “finally”, because I have suspected for months what he has been up to but I just didn’t have the proof that I needed. So of course it was a complete waste of time to accuse him because he would just deny it and say I was “crazy”.
I won’t bore you with the gruesome details but rest assured, I finally have the lying jackass on the skewer and this time it can’t be denied. Twenty years ago when we were first married I would have had a complete breakdown if I caught him cheating but now after all the years and all the lies, I am surprising myself with how calm I actually am.
I guess I’m kinda used to it now. Anyhow, so please do tell me how do I tell my husband that I know he is cheating. I know that sounds like a crazy question but every time I have tried in the past, he seems to have a way of talking and lying his his way out of it.
Regards,
Jianna
Lots Of Good Ways To Tell Your Husband That You Know He Is Cheating
Thanks for the letter Jianna and I hope I can be of some help. In my opinion there are so many good ways to tell a husband that you know he is cheating that you have to decide for yourself which is the best for you. I can tell you this though and that is that far too many wives make a complete mess out of the way that they tell their husbands that that know that he is cheating.
You Don’t Want To Freak Out
What you don’t want top do is to freak out and turn the whole thing into an emotional fiasco. I know that sounds hard to do, considering the circumstances but it is imperative that you remain calm. You see, it’s not a small deal and it can effect the outcome of your marriage to say the least.
Decide Beforehand How You Want Things To Pan Out
What you are going to have to do is to decide beforehand what you want to see done after you have told your husband that you know that he is cheating. Do you want him out of the house? Do you simply want him to move to a separate bedroom or do you only want him to convince you in some way that he will end the relationship and not cheat any more.
Sit Him Down and Tell Him You Have the Goods On Him
You see, those are lasting things that will benefit you if they are what you want and that is far more important then screaming and throwing dishes. So what you need to do is to sit his butt down and then tell him that you know and how you know. Then rather then allowing him to steer the conversation or argument around with lies and BS simply make your demands known.
Tell Him You Need a Few Days To Yourself To Get Him Out
Perhaps you are finished with his crap and want him out of your life for good. If this is the case then you may want to consider telling him that you need a few days to yourself and want him to find a place to stay for a few days. This will give you the time and the space that you need to get your divorce attorney, get the necessary papers filed and him out of the home cleanly, easily and without any problems. Good luck!
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