Madam Marie: Offers Some Thoughts On Cheating Boyfriends Who are Christian
Dear Madam Marie,
I met my boyfriend at our churches summer camp last year while we were both camp counselors there. There is no doubt in my mind that he is a true believer in Christ but it seems that he uses the fact that he is a Christian to explain away some things that don’t turn out to be true.
For instance, when I first met him he told me that he had never smoked pot and never will because he is a Christian but I have have smelled it on him on several occasions. (I know what it smells like). He also tells me that he would never cheat on me, because (you guessed it), he is a Christian and that he would tell me if he was ever tempted to sin this way.
Madam Marie, Isn’t us sleeping together when we aren’t married a sin anyway?? Now he is going to be a church summer camp counselor again this summer and I can’t go because I have summer school.
Can I trust him not to cheat on me because he is a Christian or is he like my uncle says “phony as a three dollar bill”?
-UnluckyBeliever
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You also could have thrown in a few more details about the situation you are in with your boyfriend, because I suspect that there is more to it then just his pot smoking that has sent you looking for some answers. Also, I think you answered your own question about premarital sex and any conflicts that it poses to his “rigid Christian values”.
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I will tell you that from my own life experiences you really can’t rely on a persons religion, no matter what it is, to be a guage by which you can judge their personal integrity, most particularly when it comes to matters of money or sex. That is not to say that Christians or any other believers are dishonest in any way.
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It’s just that there are Christians out there that “wear it on their collar” and try to use their Christianity to manipulate people, including their wives and girlfriends. My general rule regarding religious men, is that unless they have been castrated, they are just as capable of cheating as any other men.
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