Madam Marie: On Women Respecting Themselves After a Husband Cheats
Dear Madam Marie, I need your help!
I recently found out that over the course of the past year, my husband had been having an affair with a young woman that he worked with at his real estate business. Ironically, it was the recent economic decline and drop in home sales that brought the situation to light.
In short, the young lady had to find employment elsewhere and my husband also was forced to spend less time at his office, so they no longer had the cover of work to carry on the affair.
Well it wasn’t long before I knew that something was up and to make a long story short I caught the two “lovebirds” basically in the act at a local motel. My problem is that I was and still am close fiends with so many of the people who my husband worked with in and around his business.
It turns out that everyone knew about the affair but no one said a word until after the whole thing blew up in my face. Of course, now some of them will talk to me about it and that is how I have learned so much about what went on for so long.
However; I now feel like such a total idiot and a failure as result and having the whole world, it seems, know about the whole mess only makes it worse. Madam Marie please give me some advice on how I can get the whole mess behind me and finally hold my chin up high again.
An All Too Common Story
Women respecting themselves after husband cheats is the way to go
A Husband Should Be Able To Be Trusted To Go Top Work
It’s a damn shame too, because someone has to work to pay the bills and keep the home and a husband or boyfriend should be able to be trusted to go to work and earn a living without becoming a cheater. So what is a wife to do? Follow her husband to work every day and baby sit him to keep him from wrecking his home with a damned affair?
You Have Absolutely Nothing To Be Ashamed Of
It’s not at all your fault and you have absolutely nothing to be ashamed of and if you want to forgive the lying bastard that is your business but personally, I wouldn’t. I do however, understand why there are problems with regards to women respecting themselves after a husband cheats, because I too have been on the receiving end of a cheating husbands shenanigans in two of my three marriages.
Get Out Of Your Home and Get Busy Doing Something
About all of the cowards at his office that knew about the whole affair and kept silent about it though. That is just a sad commentary on the state of humanity today. One of them could have at the very least sent you an anonymous note in the mail! Oh well, at least you now know who your real friends are and it’s not any of them. Get out of your home and try to not dwell on it and don’t let anyone run you down in life, so hold your head high and keep moving forward!
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